Wednesday, August 8, 2012

How not to pick up a Trans Person in SL

Mother and Chicks

Honour lured me to this lovely sim to not-photograph things, and I was reminded of something I was handed last week to share with you all - something more in line with my How NOT to... series. So strap youself in for some drama, and what snark I can summon from the depths of my cockles. This one is a little more... explicit than most of what I share, so I hope you're not at work! This is the entirety of the conversation - the lovely person who shared this with me did not know the person at all. I tend to take consent fairly seriously, hence the Nom d'Insult for this post; yes, fondling someone without getting their consent first is at the very least sexual assault. That it happened in text only makes it less of a violation, but the basic intent is the same as far as I'm concerned.

Bridge Too Far

[Conversational Rapist] slides her finger over your lip giving you a little shh nose she starts to slide her plum up and down your shaft looking into your eyes. As pre cum starts to drip from the tip she takes her thumb and rolls it over the tip.
[Conversational Rapist] starts to go a little harder looking at you with lust in her eyes she leans in and kisses you on the neck her hand pumping you. She whispers softy. "Dont get to shy on me i just want to make you cum for me"
[Our Shero]: im not shy i do usually like a hello before im made to cum though
[Conversational Rapist] nibbles on the tip of your ear and moans softly "Sorry but dont this feel good?"[Conversational Rapist] pants you on the shoulder and stops. "Well if you dont think im cute then ok."
[Our Shero]: Your cute but I value respect of being able to cum
[Conversational Rapist]: Its not a lack of respect its just random hand job your cute im cute no real harm done.
[Our Shero]: you must be a young boy in rl huh?
[Our Shero]: trust me respect should always come first
[Conversational Rapist]: ummm no i'm not
[Conversational Rapist]: Just not a stuck up prude who wont put my feelings into a game
[Our Shero]: its a game but theres real people playing behind the avatars. Its usually polite and common sense to at least say hi and greet them before emoting sex with them
[Conversational Rapist]: In saying Hi how are you blah blah blah same old same old *snore* really makes things fun and different *yawns with boring thoughts of lame same old sex floating in her head*  Trust me some times its fun to skip the lame talk and just live a little
[Our Shero]: thats cool im sure there are plenty of people here willing to whore for you, You can just go find one of them.

Sunset Reflection on Tiptoe

This is evidence that yes, women can be creepers to. Our [Conversational Rapist] probably just viewed her actions as gaining instant interactive porn, but she clearly didn't care about the other person at all and that's objectification at it's most basic. Her instant jump from "I will fondle your penis and godmod you" to "You're a prude" is characteristic of the type - both male and female. Neither consent nor the feelings of the other person are important, just the selfish desires of the [Conversational Rapist]. Honestly, I'm finding it hard to snark the basic disregard of another person's humanity; I just think it's wrong. Yes, she stopped when he said no, but she proceeded to use insults as a means of getting her way and that looks no better in a woman's mouth than in a man's. 

If you godmod another person for your own sexual satisfaction, you are an ASSHOLE and a textual rapist. If you then call the other person a prude, you are an ASSHOLE squared.

Water Colors

( More pictures here. )

Credits:

Skin: De La Soul, Aestali - Cream Rose
Eyes: De la Soul, RooMee Rainbow
Ears: Illusion, Seelie Ears
Eyelashes: *X*plosion, PrimLashes
Eyeshadow: Virtual Insanity, TWISTED Purple Rain
Lipstick: Mock, Pomegranate Lip Jelle
Hair: Calico Ingmann Creations, Aaliyah 2
Jewelry: Elemental Jewelry, Flora Purple
Wings: Fancy Fairy, Azarelle Wings
Dress: Geometry, Rorschach  White Plum
Shoes: Felicity, Yvette Stilettos in Magenta

Poses: Glitterati

Location: Black Kite
Light Settings: Fairy warm pinks (Paulina)
Water Settings: TOR, Placida Brite

Photographed by Deoridhe Quandry
Post processing: Cropping, only

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